She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed her husband also and he praises her, Many woman do noble things, but you surpass them all. Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised, honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate. Proverbs 31: 26-31
You want to fix her, do you? What shall you fix?
Will you take her soft heart and make it hard?
Will you take her depth and make her shallow?
Will you take her love and make it lust?
Do you not cherish her faithfulness, when cheating has become the norm?
Will you patch the cracks you think are flaws or imperfections?
Will you mold her to what world tells you she should be?
What is it you seek to fix?
Will you change her values into deceit?
Will you turn her honesty and transparency to lies?
Will you take her vulnerability and make it stone?
Will you take the emotions she uses to love you and make her cold?
Instead of building you up and putting you on a pedestal would you rather her devalue you and tear you down?
Will you turn her ability to sacrifice into selfishness?
What do you seek to fix?
She is rare, she is not in need of repair but to be embraced.
Her value is worth more than rubies.
If you are seek to mold her into a woman of the world, please do not.
If the woman you want is what you seek to fix in her
You can find a million without having to put in the effort to repair.
Would you rather a ruby, strong in foundation its form does not change regardless of the pressure? Its value does change based on the hands that holds it, it will always be rare of value.
Or clay that is molded by the world, that constantly changes form trying to constantly be like that of the world? It does not hold form and has no value, its value is only based on that which molds it.
What is it you seek to fix? Why fix something that is not broken?
A ruby is not meant to be molded for it is a treasure, with each attempt to mold it, it begins to shatter.
Clay was meant to be molded, never bold enough to be its own form. It can be whatever you want it to be, but clay can be found anywhere.